你是否曾说过类似这样的话：“如果你做完作业，可以玩半小时游戏或手机”？
这是许多家长常用的激励孩子学习的方法。我们努力让孩子重视学习，同时又把游戏和手机当作“敌人”。📱❌
但问题在于，这种方式会传递出矛盾的信息：
📚 学习 = 痛苦
🎮 游戏/手机 = 快乐
通过将玩手机或游戏作为奖励，家长可能无意中强化了这样一种观念：学习是必须“熬过去”的苦差事，而游戏才是最终的“奖励”。
其实，学习本身完全可以是有趣且有意义的事情！🎓 如果将学习与“受苦”联系在一起，只会削弱它的价值并传递错误的信息。
🌟 小建议：
请不要将学习和玩游戏或手机联系起来作为激励手段。相反，帮助孩子发掘学习本身的乐趣，让他们从学习中获得真正的满足感！
🚫 Stop Using Games as Rewards for Studying 🚫
Have you ever said something like this : “If you finish your homework, you can play games or use your phone for half an hour”?
It’s a common tactic many of us parents use to motivate our kids. We work hard to encourage them to value learning, all while treating games and phones as the ultimate "enemy." 📱❌
But here’s the problem: this approach sends mixed signals. It unintentionally teaches kids that:
📚 Studying = Pain
🎮 Games/phones = Pleasure
By using screen time as a reward, parents may accidentally reinforce the idea that learning is a chore, while games are the ultimate prize.
Learning can and should be fun and rewarding on its own! 🎓 Associating it with "suffering" undermines its value and sends the wrong message.
🌟So here's a tip: Don’t link studying to games or phone time as a motivational strategy. Instead, help children discover the joy of learning for its own sake.
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